I hope everyone is doing good and in good faith. I praise Allaah (swt) for having guided us to this sublime way of life without which, we would be no better than animals.
Swiftly moving on, I know I haven't written the 2/2 of the Best Marriage Proposal Scenarios yet and I apologise for this. However I have another thing to apologise for.. erm, how do I say this in the best way? Well, I will not be posting in the next few months (until April) because my time schedule is incredibly tight until spring time and these articles take a considerable time to think over, plan, search and write. (seriously.)
But, (there's always a but) I know many of our readers come regularly visit our blog (we appreaciate it very much!) and it wouldn't be very fair to leave it totally empty until spring therefore, I am proposing a new idea which is the following.. *drum roll*
I believe it's important to give chances/opportunities to other people who want to give their views, share their opinions/personal experiences on this topic. I am pretty sure there are lots of people out there who may be more experienced than us or more eloquent or more knowledgeable than us regarding Zawaj & all that comes under it. So, if you ever wished to write your thoughts on this subject or to explain your way/method or to even anonymously share your story/anecdotes then please do send us an e-mail at: zawajland@hotmail.com with your article written in a nice & presentable manner.
To prevent any misunderstandings & to assure that we are on the same wavelenght, I am putting a few conditions inshAllaah:
- Obviously, there shouldn't be anything that opposes our religion in your article
- If you wish for your article to be published anonymously, please do mention it in your email
- Share your thoughts whislt bearing in mind the sensitivities of other people
- Do not make it excessively long
- Keep to the topic
- Do not include other people's real names, no backbitting please
I hope we do get different perspectives from various people inshAllaah, I'm sure that will be very interessting because our views may be biased on what we have seen so getting other people's input will be very beneficial.
Finally, I would like to remind all that this blog is dedicated to motivate/advise/present thoughts and we are only seeking the Pleasure of Allaah (swt) despite our topic being a sensitive one, I always like to remember that if our intentions are correct we may well be rewarded for every letter we type on this blog. Let's always remember Allaah (swt), Creator of the Heavens & Earth in all our dealings and especially with regards to marriage.
See you back in April.. inshAlllaah.
SubhanakAllaahouma wa bihamdik, astaghfirullaahi wa atubu ilayh
